Saturday, April 26, 2008

Girls Weekend

Well this weekend was our wards Father & Sons camp-out which mean... GIRLS WEEKEND! This weekend me and Raegan did all kinds of girly things. We painted our toes, watched chick flicks, did our hair & make up, ate ice-cream(well a frosty with french fries) and of course went shopping for clothes! We had so much fun! I always love being able to spend some one-on-one time with each of my kids! anyway here are some pictures of our weekend!

PRETTY TOES



CURLER TIME!




Frosty with some fries


Movie time - of course with popcorn

But not just any popcorn... CARMEL POPCORN!!


My little curly head(Yet still a little sleepy from last nights fun)

WOW that is curly


Mommy & Daughter


Of course it wasn't all girls this weekend because Lincoln is still breast feeding he had to endure a weekend with the girls but it looks like he didn't mind too much :)

Recent Events

I know some of these are a little over due but oh well. This fist picture was taken back in March at Grandma Honey's House. It is of two of the cutest cousins ever Lincoln & Sienna



These next pictures are of the kids at the park back when Mandy came down the beginning of April. The kids had so much fun playing together. It is always fun when all the cousins can all play together.







And of course here are some pictures of us at the good ol' Logandale Fair(This is actually how we spent our 5 year anniversary!)








Here are just some cute pic of my two handsome boys( I cannot believe my baby is sitting- where does the time go)




And then here are some pictures from our Saturday in Mesquite. Matt was asked to play in a softball tournament, so we went to cheer him on. The kids had alot of fun saying "Go Daddy Go" It was so cute. It got a little windy but overall we had a blast!


Friday, April 25, 2008

CONGRATULATIONS TAYLOR


Hip-Hip Horray Taylor. Just wanted to say Congrats to an awesome brother-in-law for graduating law school. Taylor is the smartest person I know. Seriously if I was ever on "Who Wants To Be A Millionarie", He would be my phone a friend because he knows everything about everything! Congratulations Taylor, wish we were there to celebrate with you. Good Luck with your internship! We love you!

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Happy Anniversary



I just wanted to say Happy Anniversary to my wonderful husband of 5 years! It is crazy to think it has been that long since we got married. I just want my husband to know how much I love and apprieciate all that he does for me and our family. I have to say, I have to the best husband out there. I am so lucky to have him, he is so perfect. I love you Babe! Happy Anniversary!

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

CUSTODY


Well as some may know my brother Jake has been trying to get custody of his daughter Aliya. He went to court yesterday and both sides ended up agreeing to Joint custody, except Aliya will be with her mom more days than she is with Jake, but Jake has a say in major events in Aliya's life which is great and Aliya will be named Aliya Elizabeth Smith-Hafen(long I know but at least the Hafen is in there). Well I am not blogging to tell you what they agreed on, I am blogging because I was supposed to be a character witness for my brother yesterday, since they settled, it did not actually go to trial so I have some things that I want to say that I did not get to say yesterday! So here it goes(Also I am not trying to offend anyone but some things need to get said ya know) My brother Jake is an amazing father. Aliya and Jake have one of the cutest, closest father-daughter bonds that I have seen. Jake would do anything and everything thing in his power to give his daughter the best life has to offer. Jake is not a sit back and let others take care of my daughter type of guy, from the beginning, when ever Aliya was permitted to be with Jake, he has always been right there, changing the diapers, dealing with tantrums, kissing boo boos, reading bedtime stories, everything. He did not want to miss any moment of his daughters life. Now if any of you know the whole messed up complicated story of Jake and Nellie you will know that Jake has to prove himself a million times more worthy to be with his daughter and I feel that he is being royal screwed. Now do not take this the wrong way I love the Smith family despite all that has gone on I have grown up with them my whole life and I am truly happy for Nellie and I hope her and Tim have a happy and wonderful life together and by no means is this a jab at her and her family, I just do not understand why two families cannot work out their differences for the common good. I Believe Aliya deserves both her parents in her life. Not only that but deserves to know both families. We love Aliya and miss her too when Jake does not have her. I just cannot understand why this whole situation had to even be brought to court. My brother, though he chooses to do some things that I don't agree with, is not a bad parent at all. In fact in some areas he is a better parent than me. He makes time for his daughter. He takes her to the park, takes her to the farm, he is always thinking about his daughter and things they can do together, how he can make his home funner for her. He is an amazing person and just because right now he is not a worthy priesthood holder and is questioning the LDS religion does not make him a bad father or person! Again I know that he has made some mistakes in the past and makes mistakes now (but seriously who doesn't) but I now that my brother loves his daughter and me and my family have hope and faith the he will come back to this gospel. I think many would have strayed with only a fraction of the hypocritial things that Jake has had to endure, that people have done and said to him about not only himself but his entire family. Again we are all human, have made mistakes and have all strayed from the gospel to some degree or another. For some it takes a little bit longer to make it back but by no means should this be a criteria for him having custody over his daughter. I love my brother and believe with all my heart that he deserves his daughter in his life as much as she deserves to have him in hers. Both Nellie and Jake are capable parents and there is no real reason why she cannot have both equally in her life. It is my hope and prayer that the Hafen & Smith family can once again all be friends and be able to have holiday parties & ALiya's birthday together and be able to forgive and forget and be happy for everyone so that Aliya can have a loving supportive family from both her biological mother & father, Jake & Nellie!! Because no matter what anyone thinks of my brother, he knows how to make one cute baby!! I love you Jake!!